I don't have a problem with people writing stories about gay men for a straight female audience, I read plenty myself, but I think a lot of them are written poorly. You need to do research, especially if you aren't writing about yourself.
I see these small misconceptions and stereotypes, and I want to correct them, but I don't want to be a dick. If I ever do anything like this PLEASE leave me a comment, even if it's rude. The ONLY reason I post online is to get critique and learn.